lists?

1. Path of locations [birth to current]
1. Orange Co, Cali
2. College Station, Tx
3. Great Lakes, Il
4. Pensacola, Fl
5. Oceania, Va
6. San Diego, Ca
7. Iraq
8. SD
9. CS, TX
10. H-ville
1. Relational path of those lived with for each location
1. dont remember
2. Parents
3. Bootcamp
1. mostly strangers, don’t keep in touch with any
4. A-School
1. More strangers for a longer period of time, only still talk with one of them
5. C-School
1. very small group (6 people) kept up with one
6. NASNI
1. First command, hundreds of people that come and go, know where and still talk to a hand full.
7. NPDB-2
1. Combat unit, around 400 people, new family, while I don’t know all of them very well, i could still call on anyone of them for help.
8. FRC-SW
1. another big command, hand full
9. see b
10. no one




1. How those relationships changed from location to location and as you aged

The child hood friends i’m still close with, other casual school acquaintances have fallen through the cracks. Now friendships are formed based on mutual interests rather than forced interactions.

Navy friends are different, we rotate around all the time, in specific job communities chances are good you’ll see each other again but they usually fall off the earth after they transfer or get out.

1. Significant things said to you that you can almost still hear in your head. Both p/n

I don’t know, not much of a talker as a kid or now. It’s to the point, not one for small talk or deep meaningful conversations.

1. Educational path--schools and for each list (be specific)

1-4 College hills

4-6 Willow Branch

7-8 CS Junior High

9-12 aCm Consolidated
Bear/Matt/Mauro - lived across the street, Bear/Matt lived with in college, was in all 3 weddings - positive influences, main group of friends for the past 28 years.

Didn’t really have any negative peers, bullies, disruptive class clowns lived a boring life for the first 22 years.

1. Significant adults [why?] both p/n

Parents/G-rents/aunts/uncles all successful educated well rounded people- positive

Good leaders in navy, those who command respect through actions

Poor leaders in the navy; those who follow the letter to a fault, unable to adapt to change or criticism. those who command respect through rank- negative